Saturday, May 30, 2009

This weeks adventure and hot pick up spots for bi curious women

Well, finally a new post…please forgive me, I‘v been out and about NYC checking out the best pick up bars for bi curious women. I started on Friday night with a special Girl Nation night at the Stone Wall Inn on 53 Christopher St. NYC. Every last Friday of the month there is a girl party there. The place was packed but very clicky, so as far as a quick hook up with a girl you may have your eye on, virtually impossible unless you are confident enough to approach her even with her friends having marked their territory.
The women were not very attractive at least on this particular evening so I quickly assessed the hook up possibilities at the venue, finished my beer and headed off to Henrietta Hudson’s on the corner of Hudson and Morton St. In NYC.

A much better choice, packed with gorgeous women all different ethnicity, looking like they were there for the same reason I was. After a quick trip to the ladies room I focused my eye on a beautiful blond blue eyed vixen dancing alone or at very least with her friends. I positioned myself near her and swooped onto the dance floor letting her know with my eyes I was interested. Within 5 minutes of dancing we were up against the wall kissing passionately and let’s just say the rest is history.
So, hands down the best hook up spot on a Friday night in NYC is…Henrietta Hudson’s, guaranteed.

I’ll be checking out this Sunday May 31, 2009 a daytime out door hot spot for women on Sunday called Stiletto at the Maritime Cabanas on 363 West 16th Street on the corner of 9th Avenue New York. Party is from 2pm to 10pm with no cover charge.

Friday, May 22, 2009

SKiN NYC :: SLIDE

SKIN & Pacha celebrate 7 years of the longest running and most exclusive erotic party in Nyc history with a new theme all about Dance, Celebration, and the hottest crowd you will ever find. "SLIDE"

Saturday May 30th, 2009
Pacha (Private VIP Entrance Top Floor Pachita “ Totally separate from the rest of the club” )
618 West 46th (Between 11th and 12th Ave.)

Join us for one of our most popular themes that’s all about the the sexiest women showing off their most erotic moves. SLIDE brings out that natural inclination in the erotically charged woman to get up and show it off by working the pole for everyone to see and as in the past get ready for the show of a lifetime.

This years “Slide” pole dance competition winner will receive a 3 day and 4 night trip to Hedonism 2 in Negril Jamaica so ladies start sharpening your skills and get ready to hit the stage and work it for the crowd. The winner will also receive a professional pole from Lil Mynx with runners up receiving portable poles from My Sexy Little Pole. Imagine the hottest crowd in Nyc as the only screened event in existence mixed with the sexiest women sliding and spinning to the thumping, pounding, pulsing beats of the D.J.’s mixes as only Skin can do.

Speaking of music we are bringing back at great demand the D.J. that’s been working the crowd to the frenzy as only he can with his special brand of “Naughty Ibiza” our resident D.J. David Martinez. Opening for David will be D.J. Eduardo Serrano. Resident D.J. at Club La Boom in Cancun, Mexico for 3 years Eduardo is know for his high energy Vocal House and we are thrilled to have discovered him for this event so get there early as trust us that you do not want to miss this set. For closing we change it up for a rare Nyc appearance of D.J. Ziggy. From his residency as the White Room D.J. at Club Exit to his travels all over the map including repeated stops as part of Miami’s legendary WMC Ziggy has developed a unique sound specializing in SEXY. 3 D.J.’s that will make this a journey you will not want to end as only Skin brings it.

We also are booking one floor of a nearby hotel for our out of town guests and those New Yorkers who would like to continue the party in a more private atmosphere. You may obtain the online promo code by emailing us at virtualviplounge@aol.com. You must be a Skin member to acquire this information. The rates are $145 single and double occupancy. $165 for triple occupancy $185 for Quadruple occupancy. The cut off date is May 20th but reserve now as these rooms will go quickly.

Tony Yang will be with us shooting Skin guests and for those of you who haven’t taken advantage of his work at past parties you are truly missing out. Photos shot in his studio area are owned by you alone and sent to you within the week of the party. See below for the kind of quality he shoots at Skin and ladies get your outfits together for your own private shoot.

A Special Guest Appearance by:: The Naughty Girls (Naughty is an understatement)

Check Out Skin Party Video




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Ptown's FIRST WOMEN'S Party Cruise!

Girl Power Events and Fenway Community Health invite you to
Ptown's FIRST WOMEN'S Party Cruise!
Get your tickets now!

MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND

SATURDAY, MAY 23 1-4PM

Join celebrity cruisers: Lori Michaels and her girl Jamisin Lee, the stars and producers of the new lesbian web series Anyone But Me, ALL THE KINGS MEN Performance Troupe, Poppy Champlin, Lizzie Borden, Gloria Bigelow, Jackie Monahan, Amy Tee, Chantal Carrera and DJ Ann Rogers!

Proceeds from the event support Fenway's Women's Health Programs.



WHEN: Saturday, May 23 1-4PM Check-in opens on the dock 11:30AM; Boarding begins at 12:30PM
WHERE: Bay State Cruises Provincetown II, leaves from end of MacMillian Pier

TICKETS: $25 and available online until Friday at 3PM at The Pied Bar, 193Commercial Street, Friday night and on the dock on Saturday morning beginning at 11:30AM

Parking is available on MacMillan Wharf and at other lots in Provincetown. If you are already in town, we strongly encourage you to walk to the boat.


Click here to get tickets now!


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Friday, May 15, 2009

Bi Curious Speed Dating Event

Legacy is sponsoring it's 6th Speed Dating Event
for Lesbian/Bisexual/Bi curious women

This is an after work singles event
on Thursday June 4th in Manhattan
Doors Open at 7:30PM and no one will be admitted after 8:15PM

The venue will be, Zanzibar located on 645 9th Avenue on the
corner of 9th ave and West 45th Street

Ladies only, Admission $20

Yes, I will be there along with the BCC team to critique the event.

Hope to see you there.

Please forward any questions about this event to my private email.


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Thursday, May 14, 2009

Bi Curious update

Okay, so it’s been almost full week since my last post…Girl Nation last Saturday night was hot! Great turn out, at about midnight it was packed with lovely ladies. I have to give Kudos to the Asian Bartender (sorry didn’t get her name) in the short shorts who served up the sexy bottle shots to the willing participants. The way she stood on that bar and poured the shots into all those sexy open mouths was breathtaking.

This week was interesting found out about a few more bi curious girl hangouts. Looks like someone on Craig’s list was trying to put together a bi curious speed dating event in New York City for the first week in June. I’ll keep you posted on the details on where and when. Once I receive them.

Not a bunch going on for all those bi curious ladies in the New York City area, but I’d like to change that so drop me a line VIA email below and let me know what type of event you’d be interested in , for example speed dating, a bi curious party at a Venue in NYC, etc. and the BCC team will do everything possible to make it happen.

To send me a private message scroll down to
Add me to BCC mailing list and notify me of upcoming BCC events fill out the form and send.

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

BCC Hot Spot this weekend

Ok, ladies It’s Wednesday and plans should be coming together for the weekend.
Yes, there is a recommended hot spot this weekend for guaranteed bi curious and lesbian fun.

The party and the place to be on Saturday May 9th is Girl Nation...located on 12 West 45th Street between 5th and 6th Avenue, $5 before 11p.m. $10 after. Tel 212. 391. 8053

I will be there with several Bi curious hotties. So join us for a drink!
See you there!

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

So you think a girl was trying to pick you up…but you’re not sure.

This is a popular question, very recently I had a bi curious woman ask me, how do you know when a woman is flirting with you or trying to pick you up?

Well, I can see how it could be difficult to decipher an overly friendly woman from a bi sexual or lesbian woman. This problem is especially common in straight venues, where women who swing both ways are forced to keep a low profile while still sending signals of interest to possible candidates for girl fun.

If a person is across the room the first clues usually require you to read body language, eye contact is key...women have a tendency to lock eyes with someone who they are attracted to...usually for 5 seconds or more.

Second, would be touching, if she has an opportunity to be close to you, she'll let you know by touching you in key areas...hands, wrists, lower back or hair.
You also have to notice how quickly she’ll work to get your attention…she won’t continue stalking if her signals go unnoticed, it’s best to at very least get her cell number to confirm her advances at a later date.

Fortunately if it’s in a straight venue I can guarantee that the woman looking to acquire your affection will be quite forward in her approach but it’s up to you to seize the moment and take the bait!

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Monday, May 4, 2009

Miami South Beach hot event this week!

Hey ladies, please believe me when I say this isn't to be missed...hot weather, hot events and hot women.

Miami South Beach hosts yearly an event called Aqua Girl, May 6th -10th...for more info please go to http://aquagirl.org

My Intrigue With Bi Curious Women

Let me introduce myself, I’m a native New Yorker and full time lesbian, since 1990. I’ve been blessed with a full life, filled with experiences with people and places around the world. I’ve frequented lesbian venues worldwide and I am somewhat of a chameleon, fitting into any straight environment without detection.

Recently I was watching the Oprah Winfrey Show where the topic was “Women who leave their husbands for other women”. I found this so intriguing that I placed an ad on craigslist looking for women who where bi curious or married who would be interested in being introduced to the lesbian community by muah…a “try before you buy” if you will situation.

Now, I wasn’t offering sex or a date …but I was offering a wing woman or lesbian escort type of situation...accompanying bi curious women to some of New York City's lesbian hot spots.
Well the emails and pictures came fast and furious. Married, separated, bi curious, with boyfriends, without boyfriends, you name it! All very professional, career women who didn’t really need a man, or at least in my opinion they didn’t.

So to make a long story short, I decided to post an informative blog to provide information and answer questions about lesbians and the lesbian community.

I’ll also be hosting an event in the near future to further network bi curious women with open minded lesbians, so please make sure you contact me if you’d be interested in being added to the mailing list.

So, do you think this blog could be helpful to you?