Ok …I’m sorry for the long hiatus. Life got in the way a bit, but I’m happy to announce I’m back to update those Married, bi curious, bi sexual and lesbian women out there once again.
Now , I didn’t stop checking out the scene for you, I just got sucked in briefly. During that time I spent many Wednesday nights at a fabulous lesbian venue called Eden (Wednesdays at Country Club) located 248 W. 14th St. in New York City. I was kind of skeptical about going out on a Wednesday night, thinking no one would be there and if so probably many faces would be hard on the eyes. Much to my surprise, not only was it packed with very attractive lesbians but the music was pumping. Mind you it was still packed into the wee hours of the morning. I thought at first this was a fluke of sorts but by the third Wednesday in a row of experiencing the same phenomenon I thought this was defiantly a crowd to take seriously. To add to the delight, there is no admission charge.
All I can say is get yourself down there on Wednesday, party starts at 8PM and goes on well past 3 AM, don’t hesitate to get there at midnight guaranteed it will be packed.
Cheers!
Monday, August 31, 2009
Saturday, June 20, 2009
First time jitters
The question I hear the most from bi curious women is…How do you know what to do with a women? Which is usually followed up with …I want to try it but I wouldn’t know what to do.
Well,think about your first time with a man, a poor comparison but that’s all you have to work with for now. Hopefully this was someone you were at least deeply in lust with, you know, butterflies when you kissed, extreme sexual passion raging from head to toe. Anyway, take away the actual intercourse part and just think back to how you knew where and how to touch him. It came pretty naturally I’m sure…and if you were lucky, he was touching you and leading you to respond to his touch so that things went even further. Well, just times that feeling of overwhelming ecstasy by 10 with your hands, mouth, fingers and other body parts if you or your partner are really creative taking over your entire psyche.
There isn’t a manual to lesbian sex…unfortunately too many bi curious women are expecting fireworks the first time when just fooling around with a stranger or an acquaintance. Like anything else, what got you into this curious state is what your mind was telling you, which in this case was that sex with a women is “hot”. Now you are dealing with what is going on mentally not necessarily what’s real.
Take my advice…make sure your first time is with someone you trust, know well and care about, obviously talk about what is expected…if it’s sex with no strings attached, talk about it beforehand…especially if you are married and would like to stay that way. Make it clear that falling in love is not an option.
There is a very thin line to straddle in order to achieve a memorable first time experience. Your best experience is going to be with someone you have a mental connection with in addition to a physical connection …anything less than that will just leave you with an empty fantasy.
After your fabulous first time you’ll find it much easier to pick and choose who you’d like to experience next. You’ll find yourself a bit more detached and in control, it’s just the first time that’s difficult to conquer, only because it’s all about the unknown…and once you’ve done it you’ll be asking yourself, "why hadn’t I done this sooner?"
Well,think about your first time with a man, a poor comparison but that’s all you have to work with for now. Hopefully this was someone you were at least deeply in lust with, you know, butterflies when you kissed, extreme sexual passion raging from head to toe. Anyway, take away the actual intercourse part and just think back to how you knew where and how to touch him. It came pretty naturally I’m sure…and if you were lucky, he was touching you and leading you to respond to his touch so that things went even further. Well, just times that feeling of overwhelming ecstasy by 10 with your hands, mouth, fingers and other body parts if you or your partner are really creative taking over your entire psyche.
There isn’t a manual to lesbian sex…unfortunately too many bi curious women are expecting fireworks the first time when just fooling around with a stranger or an acquaintance. Like anything else, what got you into this curious state is what your mind was telling you, which in this case was that sex with a women is “hot”. Now you are dealing with what is going on mentally not necessarily what’s real.
Take my advice…make sure your first time is with someone you trust, know well and care about, obviously talk about what is expected…if it’s sex with no strings attached, talk about it beforehand…especially if you are married and would like to stay that way. Make it clear that falling in love is not an option.
There is a very thin line to straddle in order to achieve a memorable first time experience. Your best experience is going to be with someone you have a mental connection with in addition to a physical connection …anything less than that will just leave you with an empty fantasy.
After your fabulous first time you’ll find it much easier to pick and choose who you’d like to experience next. You’ll find yourself a bit more detached and in control, it’s just the first time that’s difficult to conquer, only because it’s all about the unknown…and once you’ve done it you’ll be asking yourself, "why hadn’t I done this sooner?"
Opportunity knocks on June 27th
Well, the big weekend of festivities is almost here…and if you want to blend in and you are bi curious or married this is the time to be brave and get down to New York City Pier 59 on Saturday June 27th …One party not to be missed on Saturday June 27th 2009 is Pier Pressure #10, located at the Chelsea Brewing Co. at Chelsea Pier, Pier 59., West side Hwy @18th street.
Hosted by Henrietta Hudson’s and Lover girl, for 10 years this party has been on fire.
Over 3,000 women, waterfront venue with patio deck, 2 dance floors 3 huge bars and hot Go Go Dancers.
Party starts at 9PM $25 admission
Hosted by Henrietta Hudson’s and Lover girl, for 10 years this party has been on fire.
Over 3,000 women, waterfront venue with patio deck, 2 dance floors 3 huge bars and hot Go Go Dancers.
Party starts at 9PM $25 admission
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
My favorite bi curious lesbian video clip
For those bi curious women out there who need some material, I thought I might post this treat for you, let me know what you think.
Friday, June 5, 2009
This weekend it's a Jersey girl
The weekend is here and for the second year I’ll be heading to the hottest gay, bi curious, bi sexual, lesbian event in New Jersey.
Definitely worth the trip. Unfortunately on my last visit I was in a committed relationship and could only observe the beautiful fit women that attended the Jersey Pride after party at Paradise, at 101 Asbury Ave, Asbury Park, NJ. The music was pumpin, tons of people indoors and outdoors by the pool and around the pool. It was like being on vacation on a gay Island. Anyway, check it out especially if you’ve never experienced the Jersey shore. I was a bit hesitant the first time I visited, but it turned out to be a very pleasant surprise. I hear the weather is going to be perfect so I hope to see you there!
For more info on The Gay Pride events on Sunday, June 6th go to http://www.jerseypride.org/ or go to
http://www.paradisenj.com/
Definitely worth the trip. Unfortunately on my last visit I was in a committed relationship and could only observe the beautiful fit women that attended the Jersey Pride after party at Paradise, at 101 Asbury Ave, Asbury Park, NJ. The music was pumpin, tons of people indoors and outdoors by the pool and around the pool. It was like being on vacation on a gay Island. Anyway, check it out especially if you’ve never experienced the Jersey shore. I was a bit hesitant the first time I visited, but it turned out to be a very pleasant surprise. I hear the weather is going to be perfect so I hope to see you there!
For more info on The Gay Pride events on Sunday, June 6th go to http://www.jerseypride.org/ or go to
http://www.paradisenj.com/
Saturday, May 30, 2009
This weeks adventure and hot pick up spots for bi curious women
Well, finally a new post…please forgive me, I‘v been out and about NYC checking out the best pick up bars for bi curious women. I started on Friday night with a special Girl Nation night at the Stone Wall Inn on 53 Christopher St. NYC. Every last Friday of the month there is a girl party there. The place was packed but very clicky, so as far as a quick hook up with a girl you may have your eye on, virtually impossible unless you are confident enough to approach her even with her friends having marked their territory.
The women were not very attractive at least on this particular evening so I quickly assessed the hook up possibilities at the venue, finished my beer and headed off to Henrietta Hudson’s on the corner of Hudson and Morton St. In NYC.
A much better choice, packed with gorgeous women all different ethnicity, looking like they were there for the same reason I was. After a quick trip to the ladies room I focused my eye on a beautiful blond blue eyed vixen dancing alone or at very least with her friends. I positioned myself near her and swooped onto the dance floor letting her know with my eyes I was interested. Within 5 minutes of dancing we were up against the wall kissing passionately and let’s just say the rest is history.
So, hands down the best hook up spot on a Friday night in NYC is…Henrietta Hudson’s, guaranteed.
I’ll be checking out this Sunday May 31, 2009 a daytime out door hot spot for women on Sunday called Stiletto at the Maritime Cabanas on 363 West 16th Street on the corner of 9th Avenue New York. Party is from 2pm to 10pm with no cover charge.
The women were not very attractive at least on this particular evening so I quickly assessed the hook up possibilities at the venue, finished my beer and headed off to Henrietta Hudson’s on the corner of Hudson and Morton St. In NYC.
A much better choice, packed with gorgeous women all different ethnicity, looking like they were there for the same reason I was. After a quick trip to the ladies room I focused my eye on a beautiful blond blue eyed vixen dancing alone or at very least with her friends. I positioned myself near her and swooped onto the dance floor letting her know with my eyes I was interested. Within 5 minutes of dancing we were up against the wall kissing passionately and let’s just say the rest is history.
So, hands down the best hook up spot on a Friday night in NYC is…Henrietta Hudson’s, guaranteed.
I’ll be checking out this Sunday May 31, 2009 a daytime out door hot spot for women on Sunday called Stiletto at the Maritime Cabanas on 363 West 16th Street on the corner of 9th Avenue New York. Party is from 2pm to 10pm with no cover charge.
Friday, May 22, 2009
SKiN NYC :: SLIDE
SKIN & Pacha celebrate 7 years of the longest running and most exclusive erotic party in Nyc history with a new theme all about Dance, Celebration, and the hottest crowd you will ever find. "SLIDE"
Saturday May 30th, 2009
Pacha (Private VIP Entrance Top Floor Pachita “ Totally separate from the rest of the club” )
618 West 46th (Between 11th and 12th Ave.)
Join us for one of our most popular themes that’s all about the the sexiest women showing off their most erotic moves. SLIDE brings out that natural inclination in the erotically charged woman to get up and show it off by working the pole for everyone to see and as in the past get ready for the show of a lifetime.
This years “Slide” pole dance competition winner will receive a 3 day and 4 night trip to Hedonism 2 in Negril Jamaica so ladies start sharpening your skills and get ready to hit the stage and work it for the crowd. The winner will also receive a professional pole from Lil Mynx with runners up receiving portable poles from My Sexy Little Pole. Imagine the hottest crowd in Nyc as the only screened event in existence mixed with the sexiest women sliding and spinning to the thumping, pounding, pulsing beats of the D.J.’s mixes as only Skin can do.
Speaking of music we are bringing back at great demand the D.J. that’s been working the crowd to the frenzy as only he can with his special brand of “Naughty Ibiza” our resident D.J. David Martinez. Opening for David will be D.J. Eduardo Serrano. Resident D.J. at Club La Boom in Cancun, Mexico for 3 years Eduardo is know for his high energy Vocal House and we are thrilled to have discovered him for this event so get there early as trust us that you do not want to miss this set. For closing we change it up for a rare Nyc appearance of D.J. Ziggy. From his residency as the White Room D.J. at Club Exit to his travels all over the map including repeated stops as part of Miami’s legendary WMC Ziggy has developed a unique sound specializing in SEXY. 3 D.J.’s that will make this a journey you will not want to end as only Skin brings it.
We also are booking one floor of a nearby hotel for our out of town guests and those New Yorkers who would like to continue the party in a more private atmosphere. You may obtain the online promo code by emailing us at virtualviplounge@aol.com. You must be a Skin member to acquire this information. The rates are $145 single and double occupancy. $165 for triple occupancy $185 for Quadruple occupancy. The cut off date is May 20th but reserve now as these rooms will go quickly.
Tony Yang will be with us shooting Skin guests and for those of you who haven’t taken advantage of his work at past parties you are truly missing out. Photos shot in his studio area are owned by you alone and sent to you within the week of the party. See below for the kind of quality he shoots at Skin and ladies get your outfits together for your own private shoot.
A Special Guest Appearance by:: The Naughty Girls (Naughty is an understatement)
Check Out Skin Party Video
SKIN & Pacha celebrate 7 years of the longest running and most exclusive erotic party in Nyc history with a new theme all about Dance, Celebration, and the hottest crowd you will ever find. "SLIDE"
Saturday May 30th, 2009
Pacha (Private VIP Entrance Top Floor Pachita “ Totally separate from the rest of the club” )
618 West 46th (Between 11th and 12th Ave.)
Join us for one of our most popular themes that’s all about the the sexiest women showing off their most erotic moves. SLIDE brings out that natural inclination in the erotically charged woman to get up and show it off by working the pole for everyone to see and as in the past get ready for the show of a lifetime.
This years “Slide” pole dance competition winner will receive a 3 day and 4 night trip to Hedonism 2 in Negril Jamaica so ladies start sharpening your skills and get ready to hit the stage and work it for the crowd. The winner will also receive a professional pole from Lil Mynx with runners up receiving portable poles from My Sexy Little Pole. Imagine the hottest crowd in Nyc as the only screened event in existence mixed with the sexiest women sliding and spinning to the thumping, pounding, pulsing beats of the D.J.’s mixes as only Skin can do.
Speaking of music we are bringing back at great demand the D.J. that’s been working the crowd to the frenzy as only he can with his special brand of “Naughty Ibiza” our resident D.J. David Martinez. Opening for David will be D.J. Eduardo Serrano. Resident D.J. at Club La Boom in Cancun, Mexico for 3 years Eduardo is know for his high energy Vocal House and we are thrilled to have discovered him for this event so get there early as trust us that you do not want to miss this set. For closing we change it up for a rare Nyc appearance of D.J. Ziggy. From his residency as the White Room D.J. at Club Exit to his travels all over the map including repeated stops as part of Miami’s legendary WMC Ziggy has developed a unique sound specializing in SEXY. 3 D.J.’s that will make this a journey you will not want to end as only Skin brings it.
We also are booking one floor of a nearby hotel for our out of town guests and those New Yorkers who would like to continue the party in a more private atmosphere. You may obtain the online promo code by emailing us at virtualviplounge@aol.com. You must be a Skin member to acquire this information. The rates are $145 single and double occupancy. $165 for triple occupancy $185 for Quadruple occupancy. The cut off date is May 20th but reserve now as these rooms will go quickly.
Tony Yang will be with us shooting Skin guests and for those of you who haven’t taken advantage of his work at past parties you are truly missing out. Photos shot in his studio area are owned by you alone and sent to you within the week of the party. See below for the kind of quality he shoots at Skin and ladies get your outfits together for your own private shoot.
A Special Guest Appearance by:: The Naughty Girls (Naughty is an understatement)
Check Out Skin Party Video
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