The Bi Curious Connection

EDEN moves to THE GATES, February 3rd

2010-01-24T21:50:00.000-08:00

Eden's HOT Wednesday night girl party moves from The R Bar to THE GATES!
Grand Opening, Wednesday, February 3rd, doors open at 8PM. THE GATES is located on 290 8th avenue (bet 24th & 25) New York City.
Every Wednesday beginning Feb 3rd * 8pm-3am/No Cover

Yes, Eden parties are so hot, the crowd has been known to be sprinkled with celebrity clientele, from Queen Latifah, Jenny Shimizu to Monifah.

The Gates offers more decadence, indulgence, VIP treatment, exclusivity and prestige than most any other venue in NYC.

Hot venue, hot women, hot time...guaranteed.

See you there!
http://www.thegatesnyc.com/

Tonight is the night!

2009-10-14T11:45:00.000-07:00

Ladies if you want to see and meet some of the hottest women New York has to offer be at the R bar tonight from 8PM to 3AM. It will be packed so get there early...the Logo channel will also be filming this Grand opening event. For information and location go to: http://www.rbarnyc.com/

Great Event a must see and be there....

2009-10-06T14:42:00.000-07:00

Ok Ladies if you want something way different to do other than the same old lesbian bar, this is it...not only will there be a crowd of women who love women...but after the critically acclaimed show called Stop Kiss By Diana Son, there well be Free Wine & Food for all audience members of Stop Kiss!!

To top it all off after the show there will be a Hyper Gender Burlesque show at 10pm.

So get yourselves down there...I'll be there on Friday night so hope to see you there!

Here are the Details:

Cinder Block Theater Company Presents:

Stop Kiss
By Diana Son

Two women, one kiss, one life changing experience.

Stop Kiss reflects the deepest parts of love and compassion, by delving into the ideas of identity and sexuality.

Directed by Keri Seymour
Set/Lighting by Annie Arthur
Costume Design by Nicolette Dixson
Stage Managed by John Hague
Featuring Erin Hadley, Katharine Hyde, Yury Lomakin, Nathan Rodriquez, Jillian Snow Harris & BJ Watkins

October 8th – 24th
Thursday, Friday, Saturday
All Performances at 8:00 PM
***Except Saturday, October 10th at 7:00 PM

WOW Café Theater
59-61 E. 4th St., 4th Floor
(Between Bowery and 2nd Ave.)

Ticket price: $15

For Reservations: Email reservations@cinderblocktheatre.com or call 646-575-9531
To purchase tickets in advance please visit http://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/84791

Can't Attend? Still Wanna Support?
Cinder Block Theatre is sponsored by Fractured Atlas
Make your tax deductible contribution to Cinder Block Theatre Company! Click the link below.
https://www.fracturedatlas.org/site/contribute/donate/2731

Old lesbian hot spot re-opens with a bang!

2009-09-27T17:39:00.000-07:00

Well let it be announced that Ruby Fruit's is back! An old lesbian favorite that closed for renovations...has re-opened with a brand new look a hot DJ and a slew of lovely faces. Please, get down there and get your groove on with some of the hottest lesbians, bi-sexual and bi curious women.

Ruby Fruit
531 Hudson St
New York, NY 10014
212-929-3343

Sizzling Saturday Night Party

2009-09-21T19:20:00.000-07:00

Shescape Presents:

Shescape's Kiss & Tell KICK-OFF
A Sizzling Saturday Night Party
At a HOT Trendy SPOT!
Saturday, September 26th

Ok Ladies these girls(shescape)have been throwing huge girl parties for at least 20 years or more..never a disappointment and always packed...so through hell and high water...make sure you get there...

Pucker Up for Cash and A chance to kiss
your favorite Girl!! Floss your Skills by
Grabbing your lip gloss and glazing her up
for all to see! CASH PRIZE FOR THE
HOTTEST KISSERS =X MUAH!!
Rock to the sound of your Favorite DJ and
FEAST your Eyes on our SEXY KISSABLE DANCERS!

@ Revel
10 Little West 12 Street
New York, NY 10014-1303
(212) 645-5369
Doors Open: 10:30PM
Cover $15
www.Shescape.com

Wednesday night at EDEN Update

2009-09-21T19:15:00.000-07:00

Just an update...The ladies party at Eden In NYC...Eden (Wednesdays at Country Club) located 248 W. 14th St. in New York City...unfortunately is no more. A great night out has now been terminated. I'll keep you posted on any new developments.

Wednesday Night Hot Spot for Girl Fun

2009-08-31T16:09:00.000-07:00

Ok …I’m sorry for the long hiatus. Life got in the way a bit, but I’m happy to announce I’m back to update those Married, bi curious, bi sexual and lesbian women out there once again.

Now , I didn’t stop checking out the scene for you, I just got sucked in briefly. During that time I spent many Wednesday nights at a fabulous lesbian venue called Eden (Wednesdays at Country Club) located 248 W. 14th St. in New York City. I was kind of skeptical about going out on a Wednesday night, thinking no one would be there and if so probably many faces would be hard on the eyes. Much to my surprise, not only was it packed with very attractive lesbians but the music was pumping. Mind you it was still packed into the wee hours of the morning. I thought at first this was a fluke of sorts but by the third Wednesday in a row of experiencing the same phenomenon I thought this was defiantly a crowd to take seriously. To add to the delight, there is no admission charge.

All I can say is get yourself down there on Wednesday, party starts at 8PM and goes on well past 3 AM, don’t hesitate to get there at midnight guaranteed it will be packed.

Cheers!

First time jitters

2009-06-20T21:29:00.000-07:00

The question I hear the most from bi curious women is…How do you know what to do with a women? Which is usually followed up with …I want to try it but I wouldn’t know what to do.

Well,think about your first time with a man, a poor comparison but that’s all you have to work with for now. Hopefully this was someone you were at least deeply in lust with, you know, butterflies when you kissed, extreme sexual passion raging from head to toe. Anyway, take away the actual intercourse part and just think back to how you knew where and how to touch him. It came pretty naturally I’m sure…and if you were lucky, he was touching you and leading you to respond to his touch so that things went even further. Well, just times that feeling of overwhelming ecstasy by 10 with your hands, mouth, fingers and other body parts if you or your partner are really creative taking over your entire psyche.

There isn’t a manual to lesbian sex…unfortunately too many bi curious women are expecting fireworks the first time when just fooling around with a stranger or an acquaintance. Like anything else, what got you into this curious state is what your mind was telling you, which in this case was that sex with a women is “hot”. Now you are dealing with what is going on mentally not necessarily what’s real.

Take my advice…make sure your first time is with someone you trust, know well and care about, obviously talk about what is expected…if it’s sex with no strings attached, talk about it beforehand…especially if you are married and would like to stay that way. Make it clear that falling in love is not an option.

There is a very thin line to straddle in order to achieve a memorable first time experience. Your best experience is going to be with someone you have a mental connection with in addition to a physical connection …anything less than that will just leave you with an empty fantasy.

After your fabulous first time you’ll find it much easier to pick and choose who you’d like to experience next. You’ll find yourself a bit more detached and in control, it’s just the first time that’s difficult to conquer, only because it’s all about the unknown…and once you’ve done it you’ll be asking yourself, "why hadn’t I done this sooner?"

Opportunity knocks on June 27th

2009-06-20T12:10:00.000-07:00

Well, the big weekend of festivities is almost here…and if you want to blend in and you are bi curious or married this is the time to be brave and get down to New York City Pier 59 on Saturday June 27th …One party not to be missed on Saturday June 27th 2009 is Pier Pressure #10, located at the Chelsea Brewing Co. at Chelsea Pier, Pier 59., West side Hwy @18th street.

Hosted by Henrietta Hudson’s and Lover girl, for 10 years this party has been on fire.
Over 3,000 women, waterfront venue with patio deck, 2 dance floors 3 huge bars and hot Go Go Dancers.

Party starts at 9PM $25 admission

My favorite bi curious lesbian video clip

2009-06-10T21:06:00.000-07:00

For those bi curious women out there who need some material, I thought I might post this treat for you, let me know what you think.

This weekend it's a Jersey girl

2009-06-05T22:13:00.000-07:00

The weekend is here and for the second year I’ll be heading to the hottest gay, bi curious, bi sexual, lesbian event in New Jersey.

Definitely worth the trip. Unfortunately on my last visit I was in a committed relationship and could only observe the beautiful fit women that attended the Jersey Pride after party at Paradise, at 101 Asbury Ave, Asbury Park, NJ. The music was pumpin, tons of people indoors and outdoors by the pool and around the pool. It was like being on vacation on a gay Island. Anyway, check it out especially if you’ve never experienced the Jersey shore. I was a bit hesitant the first time I visited, but it turned out to be a very pleasant surprise. I hear the weather is going to be perfect so I hope to see you there!

For more info on The Gay Pride events on Sunday, June 6th go to http://www.jerseypride.org/ or go to
http://www.paradisenj.com/

This weeks adventure and hot pick up spots for bi curious women

2009-05-30T16:15:00.000-07:00

Well, finally a new post…please forgive me, I‘v been out and about NYC checking out the best pick up bars for bi curious women. I started on Friday night with a special Girl Nation night at the Stone Wall Inn on 53 Christopher St. NYC. Every last Friday of the month there is a girl party there. The place was packed but very clicky, so as far as a quick hook up with a girl you may have your eye on, virtually impossible unless you are confident enough to approach her even with her friends having marked their territory.
The women were not very attractive at least on this particular evening so I quickly assessed the hook up possibilities at the venue, finished my beer and headed off to Henrietta Hudson’s on the corner of Hudson and Morton St. In NYC.

A much better choice, packed with gorgeous women all different ethnicity, looking like they were there for the same reason I was. After a quick trip to the ladies room I focused my eye on a beautiful blond blue eyed vixen dancing alone or at very least with her friends. I positioned myself near her and swooped onto the dance floor letting her know with my eyes I was interested. Within 5 minutes of dancing we were up against the wall kissing passionately and let’s just say the rest is history.
So, hands down the best hook up spot on a Friday night in NYC is…Henrietta Hudson’s, guaranteed.

I’ll be checking out this Sunday May 31, 2009 a daytime out door hot spot for women on Sunday called Stiletto at the Maritime Cabanas on 363 West 16th Street on the corner of 9th Avenue New York. Party is from 2pm to 10pm with no cover charge.

2009-05-22T05:53:00.000-07:00

SKiN NYC :: SLIDE

SKIN & Pacha celebrate 7 years of the longest running and most exclusive erotic party in Nyc history with a new theme all about Dance, Celebration, and the hottest crowd you will ever find. "SLIDE"

Saturday May 30th, 2009
Pacha (Private VIP Entrance Top Floor Pachita “ Totally separate from the rest of the club” )
618 West 46th (Between 11th and 12th Ave.)

Join us for one of our most popular themes that’s all about the the sexiest women showing off their most erotic moves. SLIDE brings out that natural inclination in the erotically charged woman to get up and show it off by working the pole for everyone to see and as in the past get ready for the show of a lifetime.

This years “Slide” pole dance competition winner will receive a 3 day and 4 night trip to Hedonism 2 in Negril Jamaica so ladies start sharpening your skills and get ready to hit the stage and work it for the crowd. The winner will also receive a professional pole from Lil Mynx with runners up receiving portable poles from My Sexy Little Pole. Imagine the hottest crowd in Nyc as the only screened event in existence mixed with the sexiest women sliding and spinning to the thumping, pounding, pulsing beats of the D.J.’s mixes as only Skin can do.

Speaking of music we are bringing back at great demand the D.J. that’s been working the crowd to the frenzy as only he can with his special brand of “Naughty Ibiza” our resident D.J. David Martinez. Opening for David will be D.J. Eduardo Serrano. Resident D.J. at Club La Boom in Cancun, Mexico for 3 years Eduardo is know for his high energy Vocal House and we are thrilled to have discovered him for this event so get there early as trust us that you do not want to miss this set. For closing we change it up for a rare Nyc appearance of D.J. Ziggy. From his residency as the White Room D.J. at Club Exit to his travels all over the map including repeated stops as part of Miami’s legendary WMC Ziggy has developed a unique sound specializing in SEXY. 3 D.J.’s that will make this a journey you will not want to end as only Skin brings it.

We also are booking one floor of a nearby hotel for our out of town guests and those New Yorkers who would like to continue the party in a more private atmosphere. You may obtain the online promo code by emailing us at virtualviplounge@aol.com. You must be a Skin member to acquire this information. The rates are $145 single and double occupancy. $165 for triple occupancy $185 for Quadruple occupancy. The cut off date is May 20th but reserve now as these rooms will go quickly.

Tony Yang will be with us shooting Skin guests and for those of you who haven’t taken advantage of his work at past parties you are truly missing out. Photos shot in his studio area are owned by you alone and sent to you within the week of the party. See below for the kind of quality he shoots at Skin and ladies get your outfits together for your own private shoot.

A Special Guest Appearance by:: The Naughty Girls (Naughty is an understatement)

Check Out Skin Party Video

Ptown's FIRST WOMEN'S Party Cruise!

2009-05-22T05:26:00.000-07:00

Girl Power Events and Fenway Community Health invite you to
Ptown's FIRST WOMEN'S Party Cruise!
Get your tickets now!

MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND

SATURDAY, MAY 23 1-4PM

Join celebrity cruisers: Lori Michaels and her girl Jamisin Lee, the stars and producers of the new lesbian web series Anyone But Me, ALL THE KINGS MEN Performance Troupe, Poppy Champlin, Lizzie Borden, Gloria Bigelow, Jackie Monahan, Amy Tee, Chantal Carrera and DJ Ann Rogers!

Proceeds from the event support Fenway's Women's Health Programs.

WHEN: Saturday, May 23 1-4PM Check-in opens on the dock 11:30AM; Boarding begins at 12:30PM
WHERE: Bay State Cruises Provincetown II, leaves from end of MacMillian Pier

TICKETS: $25 and available online until Friday at 3PM at The Pied Bar, 193Commercial Street, Friday night and on the dock on Saturday morning beginning at 11:30AM

Parking is available on MacMillan Wharf and at other lots in Provincetown. If you are already in town, we strongly encourage you to walk to the boat.

Click here to get tickets now!

Bi Curious Speed Dating Event

2009-05-15T18:36:00.000-07:00

Legacy is sponsoring it's 6th Speed Dating Event
for Lesbian/Bisexual/Bi curious women

This is an after work singles event
on Thursday June 4th in Manhattan
Doors Open at 7:30PM and no one will be admitted after 8:15PM

The venue will be, Zanzibar located on 645 9th Avenue on the
corner of 9th ave and West 45th Street

Ladies only, Admission $20

Yes, I will be there along with the BCC team to critique the event.

Hope to see you there.

Please forward any questions about this event to my private email.

Bi Curious update

2009-05-14T20:56:00.000-07:00

Okay, so it’s been almost full week since my last post…Girl Nation last Saturday night was hot! Great turn out, at about midnight it was packed with lovely ladies. I have to give Kudos to the Asian Bartender (sorry didn’t get her name) in the short shorts who served up the sexy bottle shots to the willing participants. The way she stood on that bar and poured the shots into all those sexy open mouths was breathtaking.

This week was interesting found out about a few more bi curious girl hangouts. Looks like someone on Craig’s list was trying to put together a bi curious speed dating event in New York City for the first week in June. I’ll keep you posted on the details on where and when. Once I receive them.

Not a bunch going on for all those bi curious ladies in the New York City area, but I’d like to change that so drop me a line VIA email below and let me know what type of event you’d be interested in , for example speed dating, a bi curious party at a Venue in NYC, etc. and the BCC team will do everything possible to make it happen.

To send me a private message scroll down to
Add me to BCC mailing list and notify me of upcoming BCC events fill out the form and send.

BCC Hot Spot this weekend

2009-05-06T16:47:00.000-07:00

Ok, ladies It’s Wednesday and plans should be coming together for the weekend.
Yes, there is a recommended hot spot this weekend for guaranteed bi curious and lesbian fun.

The party and the place to be on Saturday May 9th is Girl Nation...located on 12 West 45th Street between 5th and 6th Avenue, $5 before 11p.m. $10 after. Tel 212. 391. 8053

I will be there with several Bi curious hotties. So join us for a drink!
See you there!

So you think a girl was trying to pick you up…but you’re not sure.

2009-05-05T12:31:00.000-07:00

This is a popular question, very recently I had a bi curious woman ask me, how do you know when a woman is flirting with you or trying to pick you up?

Well, I can see how it could be difficult to decipher an overly friendly woman from a bi sexual or lesbian woman. This problem is especially common in straight venues, where women who swing both ways are forced to keep a low profile while still sending signals of interest to possible candidates for girl fun.

If a person is across the room the first clues usually require you to read body language, eye contact is key...women have a tendency to lock eyes with someone who they are attracted to...usually for 5 seconds or more.

Second, would be touching, if she has an opportunity to be close to you, she'll let you know by touching you in key areas...hands, wrists, lower back or hair.
You also have to notice how quickly she’ll work to get your attention…she won’t continue stalking if her signals go unnoticed, it’s best to at very least get her cell number to confirm her advances at a later date.

Fortunately if it’s in a straight venue I can guarantee that the woman looking to acquire your affection will be quite forward in her approach but it’s up to you to seize the moment and take the bait!

Miami South Beach hot event this week!

2009-05-04T23:01:00.000-07:00

Hey ladies, please believe me when I say this isn't to be missed...hot weather, hot events and hot women.

Miami South Beach hosts yearly an event called Aqua Girl, May 6th -10th...for more info please go to http://aquagirl.org

My Intrigue With Bi Curious Women

2009-05-04T15:54:00.000-07:00

Let me introduce myself, I’m a native New Yorker and full time lesbian, since 1990. I’ve been blessed with a full life, filled with experiences with people and places around the world. I’ve frequented lesbian venues worldwide and I am somewhat of a chameleon, fitting into any straight environment without detection.

Recently I was watching the Oprah Winfrey Show where the topic was “Women who leave their husbands for other women”. I found this so intriguing that I placed an ad on craigslist looking for women who where bi curious or married who would be interested in being introduced to the lesbian community by muah…a “try before you buy” if you will situation.

Now, I wasn’t offering sex or a date …but I was offering a wing woman or lesbian escort type of situation...accompanying bi curious women to some of New York City's lesbian hot spots.
Well the emails and pictures came fast and furious. Married, separated, bi curious, with boyfriends, without boyfriends, you name it! All very professional, career women who didn’t really need a man, or at least in my opinion they didn’t.

So to make a long story short, I decided to post an informative blog to provide information and answer questions about lesbians and the lesbian community.

I’ll also be hosting an event in the near future to further network bi curious women with open minded lesbians, so please make sure you contact me if you’d be interested in being added to the mailing list.

So, do you think this blog could be helpful to you?